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Tuesday, October 13, 2026
Clara Magdelina “Mattie” Stoll Kinder, age 88, of Frederick, Oklahoma, passed away Sunday, October 11, 2026, in Snyder, Oklahoma.
Mattie Kinder was born on August 17, 1938, west of Chattanooga, Oklahoma, to Jake and Eva (Fischer) Stoll. She attended Hiwatha Country School until around fifth grade then transferred to Chattanooga Public Schools graduating with the Class of 1956.
On June 22, 1957, she was united in marriage to Billy Roy Kinder in Chattanooga, Oklahoma, at her parent’s home. He preceded her in death on December 8, 1988. Their union blessed them with two sons, Ralph Edward Kinder and Quinton Roy Kinder. She farmed and ranched alongside her husband until the early 80’s when she opened Windmill Western in Lawton, Oklahoma. Following her retirement, she worked at KC’s Gift Store in Frederick, Oklahoma.
Mattie is survived by one son: Quinton Roy Kinder and his wife Michele; five grandchildren: Chisolm Roy Kinder and wife K.C., Mercedes Amyx and husband John, Asa Kinder and wife Lindsey, Baron Kinder and wife Jaimee, and Kathryn Kinder; nine great-grandchildren: Calin Kinder, Charli Kinder, River Amyx, Bear Amyx, Taos Amyx, Everett Kinder, Quaid Kinder, Claira Kinder and Henrietta Kinder; one brother: Sonny Stoll; one sister-in-law: Sue Ann Holloway; and very special nieces and nephews: Judy Emmons Spraggins, Rocky Lee Emmons, Lyle Tyson Stoll, Aimee Melissa Paige Stoll Simms, Angie Penny Stoll Ellis, Shari Holloway and Shana Holloway; and a host of great nieces and nephews.
She was preceded in death by her parents: Jake and Eva Stoll; her husband: Billy Roy Kinder; one son: Ralph Edward Kinder; one grandson: Billy Roy Kinder II; one sister: Freda Stoll Emmons and her husband Orville; her in-law’s Edd and Kathryn Kinder; one sister-in-law: Marlene Stoll; and one brother-in-law: Kenneth Holloway.
Memorial donations may be made in Mattie’s name to St. Helen Catholic Church Ladies Guild, send checks in care of Jackson Funeral Home, P.O. Box 1068, Frederick, Oklahoma 73542.
Tuesday, October 13, 2026
Kinder Circle K Ranch Family Cemetery
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